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Officially day 1 of training, woke up at 4:45am just to travel to academy in Jurong. This will takes about 10 weeks before I graduated. It’s my first time in my entire life taking the first train and to my surprise, it’s still crowded from people staying in Punggol ....

This would most probably be a good weight loss program yes?

Received wedding invitation from Alastair and bb Lynette last year 2018. Their wedding date to be on Alan's birthday! It did not affect us and we were juiced up for them!

There was 4 bridesmaids and bb appointed me to be her maid of honor. I asked the couple on their wedding day why am I their maid of honor. Alastair replied, "the best man and maid of honor have to assist in everything and cannot kpkb/ complain". I laughed. So anyone want to be my maid of honor when the day arrives? Haha it is not an easy task ok. Proudly been through it.

Bachelorette night on 07 October 2018, the vibe of getting married is too beautiful.

20 October 2018

I am moved, thrilled, elated and overjoyed. My bb and I have been through a lot, especially in our school days. I found myself in tears when they exchange their wedding vow. I am speechless, just blessed to see her so blessed. On the other hand feeling upset as I know that those carefree days can only remain as memories. In a blink of an eye, you are married and responsibilities are piling. I will never forget this special day, forever etched in my heart. xx

Have you ever came across a moment and you start remembering all the little details about a person? It’s like for a second you can hear their laugh or remember how it felt to be with them. Not sure if it’s misses, but it’s those memories and recapture came flashing back.

With that, I want to thank my bibi for stooding by me ever since we were attached in 2015. Someone who is constantly there, not giving up on us when times get rough. I just need you to be by my side, forever and always. Glad to have you who understand me so well darling.

So much to blog but I do not know where to start. Japan trip? Just A Cube business? Bangkok trip with homies? Baobei’s wedding or my 2018 birthday celebration at Level Up? Hmmm what do you guys want to read?

My yearly affair, and my backbone is breaking!!! Send some help.

Reminder for myself: It’s all about quality of life and finding a happy balance between work and friends and family. Success will then come from the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty and persistence.

Hi, am currently drafting my posts on the friends bkk trip and my 25th birthday happenings. Counting my blessing every day, stay tune for the updates!

I had a family involvement of something memorable yet unfamiliar. My family and I witnessed the whole process of digging up the dead. In my case, was my great-grandfather.

Every year during QingMing festival, I looked forward to go praying in the wee hours as I find peace and serenity, especially how my grandma gave sincere offerings with the preparation of home-cooked favourite food, clothes and money etc ..... Now I have no kin in the cemetery because great-grandfather has just “moved his house”.

I skipped the ritual in the morning to “touch the ground 动土” and only went for the “digging of gold 拾金” in the night time. Sorry if anyone of you don’t understand the jargons I converted them from mandarin, initially I am clueless about it too.

My family and I reached CCK chinese cemetery last night at 9, it was pitch-dark in there. I’m unable to see the signboard if there’s no headlights. We went to the grave and the tomb was excavated that we could see the coffin. It’s an old design that both sides are curved up. There was also a big shelter above the grave to ensure there’s no sunlight entering throughout.

We were asked to turn around while the workers unscrewed half of the coffin. Unscrewing took about 5 mins and I’m playing with my torch and Godpa got scolded by Grandma for shining light at other’s grave LOL! They told us that great-grandfather’s grave was filled with water, kind of expected because older design of coffin can trap water when it rains but water will never be able to escape. The smell isn’t very pungent surprisingly.

One of the worker started pouring out the excess water and slowly picking up the bones from the water in the coffin. We were just less than a metre away from the coffin and I was not terrified. Firstly, he picked the leg bones and both white socks were still intact. Next was 2 knee caps, 2 hips, few rib cages, jaw and the whole skull. He picked up the skull last and that was when I’m shaken, I feel a shiver down my spine. There was also 3 pens found, a black belt, a silver watch and his clothes. Is my great-grandfather a scholar why are there so many pens inside I’m just wondering. Another few workers was washing the skeleton bones with white wine before they put all of the bones into a big bag.

Now that we have placed great-grandfather into his “new home”, grandma was relieved. And if she is, we are too. Grandma is the most wonderful and thoughtful daughter-in-law, she gained so much respect from us. She’s so dear to me.

All I can do was to represent you, dad. You’re the eldest grandson to him and I will always do everything for you to do you proud.

My generation and newer ones will never be able to have such exposure and I’m glad to be here with my family. 太公 will always be remembered, you started a part of me. Rest In Peace.

I’m looking for serenity, does changing a religion helps? My soul are filled with anxiety, anger and resentment these recent years. I don’t see myself having such problems or sorrow compared to the past. I do not want my constant state of stress to lead to some clinical depression. Anger is an emotion toward someone who you feel has deliberately done you wrong.

At this moment, I wish someone could help ......

What are dreams? Is it achievable? What do you do to keep your dreams alive?

Feeling pretty bored now to take the red line to Yew Tee to meet my buyers 😒 I guess I’m the only seller that is so accommodating and would travel anywhere as long as it’s Singapore 🇸🇬 I should really learn to say N O 😪

#throwbackphoto from Hong Kong Family Trip 🤤

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